The call from the administrator from Bible college shattered me. "Your daughter," he said,"has been involved in misconduct." I didn't understand at first. 
My husband John called the church elders. They suggested a program that could help her adjust her feelings of attractions-help her with her sexual confusion.

Option 1: Ella agreed with us and signed up for a gay conversion camp.
Option 2: Ella was defiant and decided to move to Seattle to live with my sister Jenn for a while.